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The initial state of happiness about an own child is often overcome with annoyance after even a short period of time. Children quickly grow an own personality, and it’s the most vital task of the parents to help develop it and give it a shape. Otherwise, the little angel can turn into a little devil adding considerably to the stress in life you already have.

Like everything else in life, child education is a tightrope walk between strictness and letting loose. Drifting off either way causes more problems than it solves. But of course what sounds clear and obvious in theory is much harder to actually apply practically.

The suggestions here are no rules to follow, they’re mere guidelines and should animate own thoughts and ideas. After all, it’s up to you what you think is best.

1. Discipline

During the first six month of its life, a baby won’t yet be able to understand the connection between “bad behaviour” and punishment. What it really needs during that time is care and loving, to tighten the emotional bounds to its parents.

Nevertheless, even a baby that small is fully capable of repeating actions that lead to a pleasant result. So if any sob makes you appear immediately on the cradle, you’ll find that you have a miniature dictator soon who keeps you up and running with joy.

Between seven and fourteen months, children normally start testing their limits. This results from a growth in both mobility and stubbornness, so what’s being put on test are the parents’ patience with keeping their little ones from exploring, often eating and probably destroying the reachable parts of the household and for how long they can get away with it.

Babies at that age start challenging their parents by stubborn disobedience, but that should not lead to punishment. Be firm and persistent in telling and showing them what they’re not supposed to do, but don’t be rude or harsh. Their concentration usually doesn’t last, so distraction is a great weapon. They still need a lot of love, and your reward will be a happy time with a sometimes annoying, but mostly very cute baby.

Going towards an age of two years, the obstinacy takes often a negative direction: “No” is the preferred answer to all “propositions” ranging from eating and choice of toys to taking a bath and going to sleep.

Discipline can become considerably harder to apply, but is vital to steer the course of your child’s further development. It has to learn that the authority and decision is with the parents. Still, love and forgiveness is of even importance. Especially the father’s role as an authority for the child and support for his wife can make this period a lot easier.

With increasing mobility, skill and curiosity a child between two and three years can keep its mother constantly busy, taking every moment of silence as an indication of a new disaster involving eating things, messing around with things and getting stuck in things.

This can really add to the load of stress parents already have, and the explosive emotional or even physical reaction might ease the moment, but on the long term increases the problem. So be as relaxed as possible and make sure you’ve got all valuable pieces of household equipment properly secured. When children receive a bump or scratch that’s no drama – turning it into one will just make you and your child over-frightened in the future. Still, with all calmness, don’t miss to tell your child when it did wrong and discipline when it’s overdoing it.

In the following years, the focus of education should be on the child’s character and attitudes. The influence of trends, friends and media is strong, and the temptation to try new things is high. At the same time, the control parents have over their children’s activities is reduced, and especially when it comes to trends parents often lack understanding for the things that are “in”.

So even though your child becomes more independent, it’s important that you have time together and show interest in its experiences, interests and problems. Offer to talk about things, but don’t urge. Show understanding and always be there as someone your child can talk to without fear – remember the days when you were in that age, and your feelings at that time.

And, most important: Be a paradigm to your child. You cannot expect it to do something you don’t have the power or courage to do yourself. Respect is nothing that can be taught, but has to be earned, even by parents.

2. Rules of thumb

- Be just!
Don’t expect your child to behave according to rules you haven’t set. Especially young children often can’t distinguish between right and wrong. So even if something is clearly a stupid idea for you, it might seem a brilliant one to it.

- Be firm!
If you give in to your child’s defiant reaction, maybe because you’re just tired of the whole thing, you lose much more than that fight. You give away authority and respect.

- Forgive!
After a confrontation is settled, reassure your child of your love and show that you’re not resentful.

- Don’t ask for the impossible!
No matter what your means of education are like, you can’t expect a child to behave like an adult. Children sometimes behave irresponsibly – that’s built-in.

- Don’t forget the love!
In the end, no matter how much trouble you might have with each other, don’t forget to show that you love your child. And when it comes to decide how to educate, how to reward and how to discipline, listen to your heart what’s the right thing to do.

Education plays a major role in shaping up the future of children. Proper education provided to children can not only help them achieve good career but also help in the betterment of society. It is the quality education which can turn an ordinary child into an extraordinary individual. Many children are deprived of education which is a major set back to development of India.

Education must aim not only to provide literacy but also in overall development of a child personality. Quality education must aim on fulfilling the special learning needs of children. Children need to be taught in a way they can enjoy learning different things, rather than study and write exams just to score good marks. Rather than just concentrating on academics, children must be encouraged to take part in extra curricular activities, sports, debates, project works etc. The education provided must boost a child ability to reason and analyze. This can bring about an innovation in education.

There are a number of schools and educational institutions which aim to provide quality education. There are schools having CBSE, ICSE syllabus which educate the children in India at a national level. International schools provide education matching the global standards. Convent schools also aim to provide quality education with moral values to children which help develop their personality. Residential schools in turn make a child more disciplined, responsible and hard working.

It is the teacher who teaches the child in a number of ways to help understand the subject. A good teacher can make a great impact on student life by making learning an excitement. The betterment of children needs improvement in education by quality teaching institutions, which can be achieved by betterment of teachers. The increasing awareness of the importance of efficient teachers in quality education has led to the development of a number of teaching colleges which aim to produce excellent teachers who can provide high quality education. The teaching colleges provide courses like bachelor of education, masters of education etc. Some teaching institutions also guarantee placements to the students.

Education can have a great influence on a person’s life. Quality education if provided to all the children including the underprivileged children can help in making great changes in society. Although there are a number of schools in India, but no good school is affordable by the poor. It is the responsibility of every citizen towards the country to help everyone get good education. It is only education which can bring about a great development to make India have a better tomorrow.

Child education is important for successful future. Hence it is natural to feel worried when our children do not perform well in studies. It is even more natural to glare, scold and shout at them.

But all these actions don’t really help to improve children’s education. More probably, it will just add to their tensions and problems.

So exactly, what can you do if your children come home with poor report card?

Support. Encourage. Motivate. These are the key words to help children improve their performance.

Also, here are 6 simple education tips to bring faster improvement in your children:

Child Education Tip 1: Don’t Attach Negative labels

Do not label your children with degrading titles like: “Stupid,” “Lazy,” and other negative names which create poor self-image. Firmly believe that your children are capable of achieving anything they really desire.

Child Education Tip 2: Identify Your Children’s Problem

Children who don’t perform well in studies have some problems. These problems can be solved if identified. To identify problems, observe your children closely and ask them questions. Here are examples of some common problems of children:

” Complaining about classmates/teachers

” Coming from school tired and irritated

” Good in one subject but not in another

” Slow reading and understanding of study material

” Avoiding homework until the last minute

” Finding it difficult to interact with other children and adults

” Spending time on unimportant activities

” Learning little or nothing in class

” Problems with eyesight or hearing

” Not enthusiastic in going to school

” Being disobedient and/or sulky

Once you identify your children’s problem related to education, it will become easy for you to think and find solutions for it.

Child Education Tip 3: Puff up Your Children’s Self-Confidence

This is one of the best ways to improve your children’s performance. Search for some good study habits or skills of your children and talk about it.

No matter how poorly your children are performing right now, there might be some topic or study skill in which they are good.

For example, your son might be good in spelling, or reading or drawing diagrams. Your daughter might be good in math or biology or in remembering formulas. Think about it and praise your children for their good education skills.

Also, search for some education related achievements of your children in the past and discuss it with them. For example, perhaps your son had got ‘good’ remarks on his science report. Or perhaps your daughter had scored better grades in some subjects last year, or even year before that.

Discuss such past education related success. Remind your children about their achievements, however small it is. This will shift your children’s mental focus on their good study skills and on their ‘education success.’ They will realize that they do have the ability to learn. The power to win.

Tell your children, “If you can learn one thing, you can also learn other things. If you can achieve success once, you can achieve it again.” Such words from you will strongly motivate your children to succeed in education.

Child Education Tip 4: Speak With Their Teacher

Meet your children’s school or college teachers and discuss your children’s performance and education problems with them. Ask them what is wrong with your children, and what you can do to help them improve. Advice and suggestions of teachers will help you immensely.

Child Education Tip 5: Set Achievable Goals

When children have clear goals in their mind, they usually make efforts to study better. Hence encourage your children to set small and reasonable goals for their studies.

For example, if your daughter has scored C grade in math test, she can set a goal to score B grade in next math test. If your son has fallen behind in his History class, then he can set a goal to read two or three history lessons each week, depending upon his speed.

Child Education Tip 6: Keep Your Children Fit

Encourage your children to get some physical exercise like, running, jogging, skipping, cycling, swimming, etc. Exercise improves blood circulation, digestion, and provides more oxygen to brain. This leads to better learning and memory. Ask your children to exercise everyday, or at least five days a week.

Finally, remember what Edison’s mother did!

Thomas Edison was labeled as “slow learner” by his teachers. But his mother, Nancy Edison, did not accept her son as ‘dull.’ She motivated, encouraged, and taught Edison to learn at his own speed and style. And we all know what Edison went on to achieve in his life as a scientist!